Here are a few of the people we like – people who can be sexy whilst talking about safety or are not scared to mention desire when promoting safer sex.

Got one you’re dying to share?

We are not pretending to be exhaustive, so please send us recommendations for more sites. Just remember that they must put the sexy back into safe sex.

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Safer erotic films and materials

A site that dares to admit that women like sex

An erotic, sexy and educational movie that promotes safety but is guaranteed to teach you something new about pleasure. The Pleasure Project acted as the safer-sex consultants on the set (where we learnt many new tips and techniques). Read a few here.

Safer-sex related stores

The place to buy all your sex enhancing gadgets whilst learning about safe ways to handle them

An entertainment company focused on women’s sexual pleasure, CAKE online is a resource for exploring female sexuality, pleasure, health, and politics

This is a condom seller that focuses first on pleasure, offering a range of sexy condoms, including the worlds first “shaped-to-fit condoms”, as well as orgasm fuel.

A great spot to find sex toys, supplies, books of all kinds and lots of information about safer sex and fun sex education, including outreach education.

This pleasure pushing brand comes from the biggest condom manufacturer in India. The chocolate flavoured condoms look inviting.

This is one of the best and oldest women’s sex shops around! Need a vibrator or an erotic book? Then cruise around their relaxed shop in London’s East End (we were offered a cup of tea on arrival, which won us over immediately!)

Some fun reading

“The smart honest magazine on sex with cuntsure (and cocksure) prose and fiction as well as striking photographs of naked people that capture more than their flesh.” We were won over by the ‘sexy’ reviews of 90s fitness videos.

The online version of the American magazine that has some interesting reads and current views on the pleasure world.

Sexy health materials and organizations

The Center for Sex and Culture is a sex positive non-profit organization offering a library, sex parties and workshops

The Centre for the Study of sexuality in Asia with a sex-positive focus

Safety without fear for young people

Gay men fighting AIDS have always taken a pleasure angle, and this site is no exception

One of the largest reproductive health agencies gives clear advice on safer sex, including quotes from people claiming to enjoy sex and lots of it – hurrah!

the site of the Coalition for Positive Sexuality – safer sex site that says ‘yes’ to pleasure

A super spot online for safety, health and good sex


  1. Hey Pleasure Project!
    Thank you for all your amazing work!
    I’m looking for research that supports the benefits of using sex-positive approaches to sex education. Might you all have any academic/journal resources around that?

    Happy Wednesday, PP!

    Jackie T.

  2. Thanks Nachshon – we shall get onto updating those links – send more if you have them. TPP

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