Ohh we are getting very excited about our session tomorrow morning at the AIDS conference here in Washington.

Mainly because we are just a little frustrated that safer sex seems to have slipped off the agenda even more than usual.

Although Hilary Clinton was still stating the path to an AIDS free generation is combination prevention – condoms, counseling and testing. There is also a large demonstration outside the conference against male circumcision – reminding us of another prevention method recently also found to be effective against HIV (the demonstrators think its mutilation) .

However most of the excitement at the conference is on the recent NIH research that showed if HIV infected people took HIV treatment early their sexual partners  were almost completely protected from infection. It’s great news and a real boost to get people onto treatment. But we do hope that this does not reduce the already limited attention in the sexual health world on being creative when it comes to condom use. The HIV industry is a world with attention deficient disorder rapidly racing onto the next magic bullet – or ‘cure’

In fact whilst sitting in the opening ceremony yesterday I was trying to count how many times  the word condom was used. I maybe wrong (and please correct me if I missed one) but I counted four times. That was in a two hour opening Session at the worlds largest AIDS conference. Franky I felt a little depressed. And answers on a postcard for how many time sexuality or pleasure were mentioned .

However despite condoms slipping off the agenda we are getting psyched about all the brilliant speakers we have at our pleasure and  breakfast session tomorrow.

We will  hear from brilliant researchers who have identified the link between more sexy sex education and having more safer sex, such as Dr Lori Sheldon from the US or  how promoting pleasure sold more condoms in Brazil  . Daniel Marun from DKT International will tell us more about the  empirical evidence show receptiveness to safer sex messages have improved when pleasure and desire are incorporated into marketing efforts.

Dr T. Masvawure from Zimbabwe will talk about her research that looks beyond the stereotypes of African women and the reasons they have sex, pleasure of course being one.

And lastly Professor Dowsett will deliver the rather fabulously titled talk “Pleasure, Passion, Pulchritude, Sex, and Technology: HIV prevention is about to get even messier”

And I think he right.

So lets look at these wonderful condom ballgowns in the meantime.

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to know about pleasurable safer sex but were afraid to ask..

Is the topic that The Pleasure Project is tackling at AIDS 2012 in Washington conference next week. We have trawled the literature (just for you) to answer 20 question about pleasure, sex and health and it’s here all here..  Everything you ever wanted to know about pleasurable safer sex but were afraid to ask .

We are launching it at the  global AIDS conference in the USA next week (and in India later). It collects together global eviodence to answer tricky questions such as ‘ How long does it take to learn safer sex skills?’

If you are at AIDS 2012 come and hear some of the experts in sexuality and eroticising safer sex speak about the evidence at our Pleasureat 2012 Satilite or learn how to improve your sexy safer skills at our workshop. We are organizing event with DKT International, one of the world’s largest condom social marketing organisations and pleasure promoters .We are grateful to the Institure of Development Studies at University of Sussex who funded the evidence review.

 

We will also launch it in Delhi on the 28th July with the YP Foundation.

Here are more details of what we are up to next week in our poster TPP AIDS_Poster_v2.with support. pdf..and the link to our  facebook event page.

See you there … keep thinking of the tricky questions..

 

 

 

 

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The Pleasure Project’s very own Anne Philpott will be part of a panel this week in Delhi.  Nandita Das, Onir, Mithu Sen, Poorna Jagannathan, Rosalyn D’ Mello will be having a conversation on the changing visual landscape of intimacies and desire in Indian Cinema, image & contemporary art.

The Pleasure Project will be getting down to brass tacks are per usual with our views on making porn safer – and the impact of rapidly increasing access to internet porn in South Asia.

Please come and join us from 6pm on Thursday the 5th – the discussion starts at 7pm

Gallery Engendered SPACE presents The S Word – at

Engendered SPACE, 125 A, IInd Floor Next to Bookwise, Shahpurjat New Delhi – 49

Link to the event here at the Engendered facebook page

And remember when Superman starred in porn (and all the other times) he put it on. Here is the proof.  Safer Sex Superman Art by Thukral and Tagra

Superman puts on one every time

 

 

 

Well this international Women’s Day we at The Pleasure Project  hunted for some feminist slogans on pleasure.

We also looked for some slogans on indulging our desires on International Women’s Day and enjoying ourselves.

We even searched to happiness and women’s day.

It’s a poor show I’m afraid.

There are loads of great posts and articles (including this rather brilliant one by zoe williams): but little very little on us women and our male comrades in the struggle being pleasured or enjoying ourselves today.

In fact we got depressed when we found a website that highlighted” pleasure and women’s day” and turned out to an international bridal search service.

Please cheer us up by sending glorious, luscious, feminist, naughty quotes.

In the meantime we have decided that we need some images of women who like sex, know what they want, have fun and  would use women’s day as an excuse to tickle themselves pink , touch themselves up, have a beer and ignore stupid advice.

We hope you do the same , Just stay safe we need you on the front line of the pleasure revolution.

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We really like Kuber Sharma’s rant for positive porn in India: and we could not agree more that this is critical  as internet access grows (30% of all Indians and growing)  and access to internet porn grows (5% of all downloads at minimum) .

And this “guy next door”Kuber  (read sex god/nerd)  seems to have an intimate relationship with his IP provider ( all the best people do) has come out in favour of positive porn that educates and enriches our lives and teaches us confidence and safer sex.

He admits;  learning about blow jobs in a mobile phone video leak scandal; how porn is often the only way young Indians can learn about women’s pleasure;  and the joys of India’s first porn star – the awesomely sexy Savitha Bhabhi (which gives us a good excuse to use some cute cartoons).

And he mentioned us: that helped.

 

Calling all pleasure propagandists.  The Pleasure Project has been asked to help out at a very fancy Delhi Art Summit Event.

CAN YOU SEE ME?

Is a new art show about gender, sexuality, culture and religion in the global south in the new Engendered Gallery in Delhi.

Our dear friend,  is coming over from her day job (Tea Lady to minor Royalty  in England) to help out. She does not know much about art but she knows what she likes. She won’t understand a word (bless her) about all the isms ; but she serves a blinding cup of tea.

She will be happy to swap you a cup of char (or chai) for your fantasy. Inspired (possibly) by the art.

She is a good listener, so feel free to confess ALL. As we all know the tea lady often knows more than it might appear; because she always offers tea ‘n’ sympathy.

See you there. Share Your Pleasure and expand the fantasy bank some more (see here for previous Delhi events and inspirations).

Remember think GREEN – it also saves the planet to recycle fantasies.

At SPACE ENGENDERED , 125 A Shahpurjat, IInd Flr, New Delhi, India

On Sunday 29th January from 2pm till 6pm (High Tea at 4pm)

Due to the sensitive nature of the work (ohhh)
RSVP is  REQUIRED at engenderednyc@gmail.com

if you can do this you get a free cup of tea

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