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We would love to share with you an article that we just posted on our own blog! “20 New Trends in Sex Education” (http://www.bestcollegesonline.com/blog/2011/12/12/20-new-trends-in-sex-education/) would be an interesting story for your readers to check out and discuss on your blog.

Either way, I hope you continue putting out great content through your blog. It has been a sincere pleasure to read.

Thanks
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]]> Comment on The International AIDS Conference: Desperately seeking pleasure in Korea by Vijay http://thepleasureproject.org/wordpress/2011/08/30/the-international-aids-conference-desperately-seeking-pleasure-in-korea/comment-page-1/#comment-20210 Vijay Wed, 05 Oct 2011 16:52:02 +0000 http://thepleasureproject.org/wordpress/?p=995#comment-20210 Very good post Very good post

]]> Comment on International AIDS Conference: Blog 3: the pleasure and intimacy of bareback sex by Annie http://thepleasureproject.org/wordpress/2011/09/08/international-aids-conference-blog-3-the-pleasure-and-intimacy-of-bareback-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-18387 Annie Sun, 25 Sep 2011 17:30:33 +0000 http://thepleasureproject.org/wordpress/?p=1029#comment-18387 Thanks Mark - for very thought provoking comments. I guess on your last one it boils down to what we see as normal or natural. Sex without family planning could be called natural, but then having a child you don't want or an abortion that you may not survive might also be normal and natural. But not your choice. I totally agree that once lust takes over rational thought may slip - but that's were ensuring we find condoms, safe sex, a range of intimacies sexy and not see condom-less sex as the ultimate intimacy - we will be closer to getting turned on, crazy with lust and getting some good safe sex. I agree that talking about condoms as safe sex limits the notion - and tunes us out to a range of sexy possibilities. Whoever turned down a naked massage from someone they fancied. But does your sex ed teacher at school talk about that - rarely. Penetration is viewed from all sides as "sex". Thanks Mark – for very thought provoking comments. I guess on your last one it boils down to what we see as normal or natural. Sex without family planning could be called natural, but then having a child you don’t want or an abortion that you may not survive might also be normal and natural. But not your choice.
I totally agree that once lust takes over rational thought may slip – but that’s were ensuring we find condoms, safe sex, a range of intimacies sexy and not see condom-less sex as the ultimate intimacy – we will be closer to getting turned on, crazy with lust and getting some good safe sex.
I agree that talking about condoms as safe sex limits the notion – and tunes us out to a range of sexy possibilities. Whoever turned down a naked massage from someone they fancied. But does your sex ed teacher at school talk about that – rarely. Penetration is viewed from all sides as “sex”.

]]> Comment on International AIDS Conference: Blog 3: the pleasure and intimacy of bareback sex by Mark http://thepleasureproject.org/wordpress/2011/09/08/international-aids-conference-blog-3-the-pleasure-and-intimacy-of-bareback-sex/comment-page-1/#comment-16811 Mark Wed, 14 Sep 2011 03:08:39 +0000 http://thepleasureproject.org/wordpress/?p=1029#comment-16811 The issue of pleasure is starting to be addressed but we still have a long way to go. There are several concepts which need to be addressed 1. the focus on equating condom usage with safe sex. fucking without condoms does NOT always equate to UNSAFE sex and we need to consider the contexts in which sex without condoms is safe and/or low risk. And condoms do not equal safe sex - they do not protect against ALL sti's and are not safe if not used properly. So we need to transcend this paradigm. 2. we need to make the distinction between pleasure and natural sex. many activities can be associated with pleasure and intimacy that do not involve fucking without condoms. so it is erroneous to equate fucking without condoms solely with pleasure but hark back to the deeper roots of the nature of sex and how common and natural sex without condoms is for all people not just gay and ms men. 3. we need to recognise the distinction between rational instincts and logic and sexual instincts and logic. they are not the same thing and while in a contemplative state we may be able to rationalise risk in sexual contexts this isn't always going to be the case during sex where passion, urge and instinct come to the foreground as a bodies modus operandi 4. finally we must address the stigma of fucking without condoms and more closely examine the guilt and shame hiv prevention and education attribute to natural and instinctual behaviours. it is not about normalising sex without condoms but recognising that it was always and already normal. The issue of pleasure is starting to be addressed but we still have a long way to go.

There are several concepts which need to be addressed

1. the focus on equating condom usage with safe sex. fucking without condoms does NOT always equate to UNSAFE sex and we need to consider the contexts in which sex without condoms is safe and/or low risk. And condoms do not equal safe sex – they do not protect against ALL sti’s and are not safe if not used properly. So we need to transcend this paradigm.

2. we need to make the distinction between pleasure and natural sex. many activities can be associated with pleasure and intimacy that do not involve fucking without condoms. so it is erroneous to equate fucking without condoms solely with pleasure but hark back to the deeper roots of the nature of sex and how common and natural sex without condoms is for all people not just gay and ms men.

3. we need to recognise the distinction between rational instincts and logic and sexual instincts and logic. they are not the same thing and while in a contemplative state we may be able to rationalise risk in sexual contexts this isn’t always going to be the case during sex where passion, urge and instinct come to the foreground as a bodies modus operandi

4. finally we must address the stigma of fucking without condoms and more closely examine the guilt and shame hiv prevention and education attribute to natural and instinctual behaviours.

it is not about normalising sex without condoms but recognising that it was always and already normal.

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